That is super annoying and is one of the reasons I ask the dealer to just not touch the car. Most of them are not properly caring for the paint when they clean it and end up doing more harm than good.
Having said that, auto paint is going to have swirls, especially if it is a car that has been on the dealer lot and they are "washing" it on a somewhat regular basis. I am not sure what obligation they are under to deliver a car without swirls. Before I let them touch it again, I would figure out what level of detailing they actually do. Them telling you they will wax it is not encouraging. Wax does nothing to help swirls.
Having said that, auto paint is going to have swirls, especially if it is a car that has been on the dealer lot and they are "washing" it on a somewhat regular basis. I am not sure what obligation they are under to deliver a car without swirls. Before I let them touch it again, I would figure out what level of detailing they actually do. Them telling you they will wax it is not encouraging. Wax does nothing to help swirls.